Before someone says they’ve experienced one, and to shut my pie hole, let me explain what I mean.

I don’t believe for a second that potty learned babies (especially full time EC babies)  suddenly lose interest in not soiling themselves.   It goes against biological sense.  And what about the original EC communities?   Those  women who live in nature, on the fringes, and in EC cultures who don’t have Pampers.   Do they just suddenly have toddlers that poop and pee all over them?

It is usually us…the adults, our behavior and our environment, that confounds babies and toddlers.

I don’t think a “potty pause” means “I wish to soil myself“.  I think we misinterpret it because we are a diapering culture and no matter how thoughtful we think we are, we are creatures of habit and we will revolve our solutions and ideas around the familiar.   Our issue…